How To Live Your Life’s Purpose

Happy New Year!

I had an interesting experience over the holiday to share with you…

My brother has a rat terrier dog named Maggie. He also has a chicken coop, wood pile and compost bin providing ideal living quarters for rodent critters.

Maggie is a marvel of focus around potential rodent areas. She crouches to the ground ready to spring at the first sign of movement. She pants with silent, focused attention as my brother rounds the back of the chicken coop holding a stick. She knows those little rodents will be startled out of hiding and the fun will soon begin.

Maggie is living her destiny. Rat terriers love to catch rodents. Nobody had to train her: she was born that way, and she loves doing her special work.

Border collies are different. They love to herd. They couldn’t care the least about mice, but put 5 children in a room with a good border collie and in no time that dog will have them standing in a circle. It is in their bones. Herding stock animals is playtime to a working border collie.

It’s destiny.

Discover Your Destiny

Humans are the same way.

We all come out of the gate with an imprint. Ask any parent and they will tell you each of their children was born with certain tendencies, preferences and interests that seem imprinted from birth. No two kids are exactly alike, and these tendencies can’t be explained by genetics or upbringing.

Why do I point this out? Because happiness and fulfillment can only occur when you live your destiny – when your daily actions are consistent with your unique gifts.

If you are an accountant by trade but a musician by heart then life will be unsatisfying until you integrate your avocation with your vocation. A creative writer can’t install car fenders on a factory assembly line and find happiness any more than a rat terrier can herd sheep.

It’s fighting nature.

You have to do what you were designed to do in life or you will be miserable for never having tried.

How You Will Financially Benefit From My Destiny

A major reason I’m passionate about teaching financial freedom is because (1) I love the subject – it’s in my nature, and (2) there is a huge opportunity for contribution by helping people afford the life they were designed to live.

Modern society has so many people working in ways that don’t fulfill their destinies. Few people were born to spend 8 hours a day in a cubicle staring at a computer screen. It’s fighting nature, yet they are stuck because they need the money.

The goal I hold for you in 2011 is to get on the path to wealth so that you can pursue your passion in life without being encumbered by money limitations.

I don’t care about fancy houses and flashy cars. I want you to live a fulfilling life driven by purpose so that you can provide the unique contribution to this world only you can make.

I know it’s a lofty goal but so what? You’re going to die some day, and there is nothing more tragic than never having truly lived. Nobody ever regretted pursuing their dream – regardless of the outcome – so let’s get on with it in 2011.

My destiny is to support your financial success with essential education. I’ve studied the wealth building game like a PhD graduate in physics studies the mechanics of the Universe. I’ve played the money game like a child plays Monopoly. It was my destiny, and I want to share it with you.

Why? Because every person I help is another person elevated from working for survival to working for contribution by fulfilling their unique destiny – whether that be charity, writing books, composing symphonies, curing cancer, or giving to their local church. It doesn’t matter how big or small – every little bit helps.

The problem people face is they’re too busy working too hard to make ends meet leaving nothing remaining to contribute or advance their lives forward. It hurts you, me, our country, and our future. My mission is to reduce this pain in some small way by giving back my unique gift for advanced personal finance, and 2011 is the year I kick it into gear.

I’ve spent two years building out the base web site resources at Financial Mentor and there is another 2-3 months of infrastructure-work ahead before I’m ready to offer instruction on a larger scale than just one-on-one financial coaching. Watch for my first offer sometime this Spring when I launch Step 1 of Seven Steps To Seven Figures.

You were created with unique gifts and talents. Your only requirement in this lifetime is to be true to that destiny, honor those gifts by giving them form, and take the human race one, tiny step closer to a better world through your unique contribution.

I will fulfill my part in this grand scheme by helping you build wealth today so that you have the flexibility and freedom to escape whatever prison holds you back from living your destiny. When I make a difference in your life then you have the resources to pass it forward by making a difference somewhere else.

I know it sounds lofty, but I’m not willing to die without giving it one helluva good try. After all, it’s my destiny.

How about you? Are you willing to do your part? What have you got to lose by trying?

So that’s my rant for 2011. It’s either going to be another year for more-of-the-same, or you’re going to do something different, turn up the volume on life, and kick it into gear.

Which path will you choose?

Let me know in the comments below…

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I have a dream - to help in a specific way people like me who don't have money. But that requires money which I don't have and no idea how or where to get it.

@Terry - Dreams are good. Sometimes they are your purpose and sometimes they are just a dream. One way to know if it is your purpose is that following this path makes all the adventures and missteps in your life suddenly make sense - like you have been building to this point all your life and never really knew it. It connects the dots and pulls it all together. Hope that helps...

@Todd Tresidder:

Thanks, Todd. It's really weird, sometimes I feel like it's my mission in life, and that I will be utterly unfulfilled if I don't prove that what I want to do can be done.

But sometimes I think that maybe I'm just a crackpot, since our society and polity seem to be strongly opposed to what I want to do.

@Terry:
I also wanted to help those in the same position as myself. One way might be to offer a service and do pro bono work for those who cannot afford to pay. Right now I'm enrolled in a relaxation therapy course and I hope to some consulting/coaching afterward. I will coach low income/poor people for a reduced fee or for free.

@Gaynor/Terry - My two cents worth is that the easy road is to give it away for free. Everyone wants something for free so it is easy to create forward movement that way (in fact, it is the easiest way to create forward movement). The problem I found is your clients don't respect and value it the same. It is a weird quirk of the human mind to not value what is given freely.

The challenge I would give to both of you is to create a viable business model out of your passion that gives more value than it charges. That way your clients get more than they pay for making them happy, and (assuming you are successful) the growth of your income is a measure of how much value you are giving to others.

It is a more challenging game to play than giving it all away for free, but I also believe it is a much bigger game.

@Todd Tresidder:
Todd, I understand what you're saying but it also sounds to me like you're thinking I'm giving everything away. I was thinking more along the lines of a lawyer who is getting well paid for their services but also does pro bono work through Legal Aid societies :)

@Gaynor:

Thanks, Gaynor. I have this oddball dream that every North American who works full time, and has neither kids to support nor debt to service, should be able to own their home.

I'm not suggesting that burger flippers should be able to buy the typical 3BR detached house on 1/5 acre. But why not tiny homes on tiny parcels of land? For many low-wage workers, ownership of a modest home represents the difference between being able ultimately to enjoy retirement at a modest standard of living, and never being able to retire at all. (Compare owning your home without a mortgage when you are ready to retire, and paying half your income on rent.)

There is, as far as I am aware, no place in urban or suburban North America, that allows such minimalist ownership housing. (Sure, you can put a guest house in your back yard - remember OJ Simpson and Kato Kaelin - but that guest house cannot be owned separately from the main house and the entirety of the land. I once rented a guest house and watched helplessly as the owners relocated and sold the entire property well beyond my reach - if the property had been subdivided I would have been able to buy the guest house and some of the land.)

Mini-condos are theoretically an option, but condos fail my affordability test, because condos are overpriced from Day One. So some sort of affordable land division appears to be required to make this work, but zoning codes don't allow it.

On one hand North Americans say they want free markets and they want to encourage home ownership and wealth-building, but ultimately their unwillingness to let low-wage workers buy tiny homes in 'their' neighborhood trumps their political rhetoric.

At least Europeans dispense with the silly pretenses of North Americans.

@Terry:
I was born in Wales, UK and I've always thought that our ways are better and more people focused than the red tape efficiency of the US and Canada :)

Thank you for this post, and this lofty goal. I am determined to make good use of your efforts so that I may live my purpose and do more than "get by" in life.

I am at a unique cross-road in my life as I am a single mother who just sent her youngest child to college. My goal this year is to discover my purpose for this next stage of my life. Your goal intersects with mine at a fantastic time.

Many thanks in advance as I know we will each be highly successful - it is our destiny after all, how can destiny fail?

Best regards,
-E

@Elizabeth - thanks for sharing.

I have recently discovered my purpose is to encourage through creative communication. I'm already taking steps to fulfill this destiny!

@Gaynor - Congratulations! Knowing your purpose is the tough part. Taking action is the fun part. Best of luck to you.

@Todd Tresidder:
Thanks Todd!

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