What Is Your Single Biggest Challenge?

As the summer winds down it is time for me to gear up…

I will be picking up the writing pace now that the kids are back in school and I feel my winter “writing itch” settling in (long time readers know I like to write in the winter and play in the summer).

Additionally, I will finally be launching “Step 1″ of my Seven Steps To Seven Figures group coaching program over the next few weeks for those that are ready to move to the next level in their wealth building and work with me directly to overcome whatever blocks are holding them back.

As part of this general gearing up heading into winter I would also like to hear from you. I have a simple question that I would appreciate every reader – including you – spending a minute or two to dash off a quick answer to. Here it goes…

What is your single biggest challenge when pursuing financial success?

I need to know… really! It is important.

I’m not you. I’m at a different stage in this journey so you need to tell me where you are at and what challenges you face. My future writing and product development will be directed toward answering these unresolved questions and challenges. You will be guiding the direction of this blog and the content you receive will be directly determined by what you tell me is most important to you.

I really appreciate the feedback. I’m all ears so please let me know right now in the comments section below. Thanks in advance for your input…

First Name:
Primary Email:



If this page helped you then please let your friends know about it also with a like, tweet, or +1. Thanks for sharing...


Post comment as twitter logo facebook logo
Sort: Newest | Oldest

Hi Todd

My biggest challenges, appart from keeping commitment strong & steady enough without loosing balance are:
- Asset allocation strategy: How to diversify the risk? And How to decide among the different possibilities of investment?
- How to calculate the risk/reward ratio of an investment?
- What to read for learning serious and sensible principles in this jungle of “How to ..” books and blogs?

Thanks for your great job
Pedro

@ Pedro - Thank you, Pedro. I hope to offer an investment strategy course in the next couple of years to solve your first challenge, and I expect to add "recommended reading" to the free resources section of the site sometime in November so stay tuned.

As always, I appreciate your participation in this community. Thanks.

I feel my biggest hurdle is being overwhelmed with figuring out right and wrong. My husband and I are both have solid incomes, very little debt (just a mortgage) and do a lot of things right. We need to take the next step with investing, but it is hard for both of us to trust the information we find. We are young (both under 30) and are currently working to pay off our house so we can buy a piece of property, either with a house or needing to build.

@Katie - Thanks for your input Katie.

What I'm hearing are two issues intertwined - not having an investment strategy and not having a plan for how to build wealth. Both of these issues feed into the sense of being overwhelmed by not knowing right from wrong since you have no context for the decisions you are making. When you have an investment strategy and wealth plan you know what you are doing and why. Each step in the process is clear and you always know your next step in your plan. You also understand what you are investing in and why.

Thanks again for your input, and I hope these suggestions point you in the right direction. Eventually, your questions will be answered in steps 3-4 (wealth building principles and personal wealth plan) and step 6 (advanced investing for normal people) of my 7 Steps to 7 Figures courses, but those particular steps won't be available until some time in the future. I expect to publish step 1 this winter.

Thank you Todd for the refreshing thread and for posing a very good question. Your views about money and wealth have also resonated with me and given me insight into my own beliefs about the subject. I have experienced similar challenges to many of the people above and have found the most financial success in the area of Real Estate ownership. I too have had money invested in the stock market only to have it go no where over more than 15 years of holding on. The dividend producing stocks at least have kept up with inflation but many of the tech stocks have languished. As a result of this and the last financial crisis I have lost faith in the system and those that control it. I prefer to manage my own real estate and see a direct relationship between the time and hard work I put into it and the income that comes from it. As far as the greatest challenge to me with regards to pursuing financial success. I would say that since my wife and I are equal partners in life and business and we have two young children to raise, I have a full time job, she helps manages our real estate and home life, it is also the balance that eludes me most. Much of the time, the work to achieve financial success gets in the way of our marriage or just doing what is best for our kids. I have to constantly remind myself that our sources of income are only tools to live our lives better. Once these things get in the way of my life as a husband, parent, or my health than the tools are no longer serving me but I am serving the tools. That is the greatest challenge for me. How do I strike the correct balance between focus on my kids, my wife, my job and my real estate business? These are very personal issues that we all have to deal with on some level. The problem is, in order to achieve a lot of financial success you must devote a lot of time and energy to it. My wife and I were lucky in our first ten years of marriage we did not have children and we both worked multiple jobs to save and start our real estate investments. If we had a couple of kids to raise and a lot of bills to pay the road would have been much steeper to climb. Good luck and thank you again for sharing your experience, strength and hope.

Steve
Maui Firefighter
Real estate investor

@Steve - Thank you for your insightful comments.

It is clear from what you wrote that you are walking the talk and living the journey. Your recognition of the work involved, balancing commitments, and shifting investment choices shows great insight into the "real" experience of building wealth as distinguished from what all the hype artists and marketers talk about.

I enjoyed your feedback and appreciate your participation in this community. What you are sharing will benefit many readers.

Thanks.

per week i get alot of money but i end up the week with less. am not drunkard,but i dont have knowledge to wise usage advice me please

@Mulyungi - If you make "a lot of money" as you claim but little ends up in savings and investment then the problem is you are more committed to current lifestyle and spending than attaining financial freedom. Again, as stated in previous comments in this thread, "judge by results: often harsh, always fair." Your results prove your commitment - end of story. Your first step is to shift your commitment so your money flow reflects your stated goals. This doesn't require discipline or budgets like most financial advisers claim - none of that works. It simply requires you to shift your commitment and your results will automatically and permanently mirror that shift.

Hope that helps...

@Todd-
I would be honored to be a part of your first class Seven Steps to Seven Figures. Please keep me posted and let me know where and when so that I can save for it. I look forward to it and thanks for the encouragement and words of wisdom...Trust me when I say, your words are not spoken in vain.

@April - Thank you for your interest...

I wish I could offer it now because several people have inquired. Alas, it won't be offered until sometime in December for a 3 month group coaching class starting in late January.

I hope you will join us.

Todd,

In looking at other readers challanges they seem to revolve around money and growth. I find myself challanged with BALANCE. We all only have so much time each day to spend on various activities, family, work, personal finances, health, spiritual, etc... I often struggle with where should I spend my time. I can see improvement in the areas were I focus, but them other areas slip. It is too easy to get hyper focused on say building my portfolio, work, come home, eat, look at how my investments did today, do research on other opportunities and then go to bed and start over tomorrow...what happened to my excercise? What happened to spending more time with the family...BALANCE is the elusive challange....and yet it seems that to have "real" success...it must be mastered!

@Jerry - Great input Jerry!

I couldn't agree more. True wealth is about a lot more than money, and freedom is more than just financial. I have published several articles in recent months here on these topics and will continue to emphasize these ideas in the future.

Thank you for contributing this important point to the discussion...

What can In do with $10,000 just sitting in a checking account?

@Steve Pace - Thanks for your question. I believe it begs the much more relevant question "What is your wealth plan and how does that 10K fit into it?" You have to be able to answer that question in order to answer the question you provided.

For example, if your plan for achieving wealth was built around owning 10 rental properties free and clear then your question wouldn't exist. You would know exactly what to do. If your plan for financial freedom was built around a dividend paying stock portfolio then you would know exactly what to do with the money once again. The fact that the question exists at all implies your next step for financial freedom (Step 4 in my Seven Steps To Seven Figures curriculum) is to design your wealth plan.

I hope that refocusing the question provides you with a clear direction to finding the answer. Thanks for your input.

One more thing that crossed my mind. I'm caught between the voices (books, family, etc.) that say use what you know and those that say as you have focus on an unmet need. How can you tell which to follow? My talents are in the arts: singing, writing, history, and crafts. Those things don't get much repect any more. And I could write non fiction except I'm better at putting fact into fiction than I am putting facts a different way. All the things people want now seem to take years of education, you aren't looked at without a piece of paper that says you know what you know, or a vehicle.
I was born in Britain. My parents have a different outlook on work--apprenticeship was highly valued over there so post secondary education for me was not the highest priority on their list.
Gaynor

Hi Todd,
I need to apologize--I wasn't in a great place when I wrote that this morning-proves you really should have that second cup of coffee before opening computer, LOL!. However, the facts are the same. And I have looked for unmet needs. Either I haven't been able to tap into them, or people have told me what they would like to see but have not persued it further, the time between knowing what and getting something out there is too long, or I simply do not have the resources to meet the need, as much as I would like to. I also don't drive or have a digital camera, and can't afford one, so getting to customers and having a decent web presence is hard too. I know it sounds like I'm throwing up road blocks, but my barriers really do seem that high to me right now.
Gaynor

@Gaynor - Yes, you are throwing up your own road blocks. It is a very common symptom of not being truly committed to building wealth and succeeding financially. You are at the starting point of the journey and your results prove it - "judge by results... often harsh, always fair".

You know what you are committed to by examining the results in your life. You are producing results - everyone does. Just look at your results and you will know your commitment. When you commit to building wealth and succeeding financially the obstacles will not seem so formidable. They will still exist but you will find ways to overcome them.

Until you successfully commit they will continue to stop you dead in your tracks. Step one of Seven Steps to Seven Figures will be your answer.

I believe that I am my biggest challenge. I am a single parent (recenlty divorced) with 3 children in college and an income below $35,000/year. My belief system about money and wealth have changed for the better, however, I am still not sure how to go about doing things differently to make it 'fit' for me. I do know that part of my problem is FEAR, fear of the unknown, fear of the sacrifices that may need to be made...just FEAR! I want to do it, I believe I can do it, but don't know where to start!!!!

@ April - I appreciate your candidness...

The truth is we are all our own biggest challenge - me included. To paraphrase Pogo, we have met the enemy to our freedom and he is us. On the brighter side, however, you are also your biggest asset. In other words, you are a two sided coin where both aspects of this reality are equally valid. These facts will never change no matter where you are in the process of your financial and personal freedom - you will always be your biggest enemy and your biggest asset.

Learning to manage that conundrum is why developing your wealth is one of the most powerful paths to personal growth that I know of. If you want to grow your wealth you must grow yourself first. Your money is a reflection of your financial intelligence and personal development. In fact, I will go so far as to say the growth that occurs on the path to financial freedom has been worth more to me than the money... although the money is nice also (-:. I'm a completely different person today from where I started this journey.

With that said, not knowing where to start is a completely different issue. The correct starting point for financial freedom has nothing to do with fear or any other issues you raised because those issues will always exist as long as accepting risk is associated with investing and financial progress. It is an inherent part of the game that never changes. You just learn to live with it and act despite the fear and challenges.

Surprisingly, the correct starting point has absolutely nothing to do with money or finance and everything to do with your commitment to achieving financial freedom. You must make it a priority in your life so that it rises above other issues battling for your time and money (resources) or you will never achieve it. Commitment is the correct first step (starting point) to wealth. When you get commitment right everything else follows naturally. If you don't get it right you will never succeed. It is just that simple and black-and-white clear.

I have a little saying I share with my coaching clients that a guy named Alan Jacques shared with me: if you want to know how long it takes anyone to achieve anything just look at how much of their resources (time and money) they dedicate to the process. You know your commitment to financial freedom by examining your dedication of resources. For most people the answer is "very little" goes to financial freedom and most goes to current lifestyle. That is why they aren't financially free, why current lifestyle absorbs most resources, and why commitment is the necessary starting point.

I will be offering a group coaching program this fall/winter that will walk you step-by-step through this essential starting point so pay attention to this newsletter/blog posts for an announcement. It is Step One of my Seven Steps To Seven Figures group coaching program that I will building out over the next several years. If you would like to be a part of that first class where I will teach it personally then just let me know.

Thank you for taking the time to provide input and share your challenges. I hope this helps.

My biggest challenge is finding a financially viable business idea. The main problem is I've shown things around (mainly at church, it's my only outlet) and people have liked it but no one has asked me to make one for them. I did have two soap orders once but no repeats and one didn't get back to me to see if I had any. At another church I was going to a friend even handed thte business card back to me with a "that's nice" kind of attitude. I feel that people are patting me on the head and saying "that's nice dear, now go and play like a good little girl." Because I have a slight disability and am on welfare (I didn't put me there) they don't want me to do anything. No one needs me or what I have to offer. On the one hand I like to do crafts but on the other I can do more than that--like accounting but don't have the money to continue my education. I've also written two novels but no one buys fiction PDF's online and that's the only way I have of doing anything with them.I feel like a dud, unneeded and useless.
This is probably more information that you wanted and not what you were looking for :) but it's my story.

@Gaynor - One of the essential elements to business success is finding an unsatisfied need and filling it. Soap and PDF novels don't qualify as an unsatisfied need and that is why they are not financially viable. For example, notice what this post is about... finding people's unsatisfied needs within my niche area of expertise - investment strategy and wealth building. I'm walking the talk by writing this post. I want to understand what challenges people are facing in their quest for financial success that current services available aren't satisfying. My job as an educator is to write things that help people satisfy those unmet needs. My job is not to write what is interesting to me because that serves nobody except me. In other words, refocus your efforts on finding out what people want and then help them get it - that is how you find a financially viable business idea.

Hope that helps...

Off the top of my head I think my biggest challenge in pursuing financial success is feeling sure that the choices I'm making are actually going to pay off. To put it another way, when starting out you have such limited capital and knowledge and even less experience that it is very hard to feel confident what you are doing is going to pay off.

After 7 years or so of dedicated savings to feed the mutual fund industry I pulled the plug on that approach (fortunately having broke even 1997 - 2005.) and am now pursuing mortgage lending which is working well so far and gives me a much higher control of each investment as I pick them and also control of the risk management plan of what to do if the loan stops performing. I'm actually kind of hoping a loan does stop performing so I can face that fear/problem and realise/learn how to better manage that ultimate risk.

The other strategy I've implemented you helped steer me towards. Since I read various blogs where you had posted and then saw you quoted in a real estate investor book I took your apartment building suggestion and just bought a 24 unit place that is working out very well in the three months since purchase. It was undervalued and now yields 18 % cash on cash, 100 % occupancy in a growth market etc - you helped me go that way. I would take you up on the mentoring (and I may still if I decide to pursue a US building) except I live in Canada and am hoping to get a mentor more immediately aware of our tax and tenant codes, financing etc.

This doesn't directly answer your question but is perhaps related in that for me the strategy that paid off the most has simply been being somewhat frugal in living choices which has now given us the capital to do the above strategies. I would think that your average person would find it hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel; like you I simply never upgraded my living standards after school to where my entire disposable income was already spoken for.

Now, as I start to feel my financial wings spread, the biggest challenge is still pulling the trigger on an investment in the face of the uncertainty the future inevitably holds. But here again you helped me in your writings on what an investor really is - someone who has made his "house rules" as to when they will go into an investment and when they don't. I keep that lesson in mind as I set down the criteria by which I will invest into more buildings or more mortgages etc. But I'm still nervous each time (which is good). So I guess the fear is the biggest challenge. I've think diversification is probably not a winning strategy when you have few assets; how do you pick the one right opportunity?

A sincere thanks, and feel free to use any comments as a testimonial. I do pay back your help by telling people about your blog but quite honestly it seems most people are not that interested and cannot see financial independance as something they could achieve in their working life - for me/us it is now probable in 2-3 years. I have the capital for one more building like the other and that should be good for the next few years.

Tris

@Tris Wow!!!!

You made my day to know that my writings had that kind of influence. That is why I do this, but I rarely hear back from anyone. To see your positive results directly influenced by my work when we have never even spoken gives my a "warm-fuzzy" to know I've had a positive impact. Thank you, thank you!

The challenge you share of facing your fear is a natural result of taking risk. One aspect of investment is that it is essentially the acceptance of risk into an unknowable future. Every conscious person who fully understands this will experience it as fear - me included. It just shows that you are aware of the potential impact of your decisions. Use the fear wisely and it will fuel you to improve your risk management... something I will writing about more in the future.

Your choices to live frugally and expand into real estate have been wise and are apparently producing the results desired. Keep up the great work!

Thank you again for the heart-warming feedback. Most people don't realize this but publishing a blog can be an isolated, one-sided process where I try to put out quality info but little comes back in the way of knowing the impact. To hear that my writings have made a difference in your life means everything.

Thanks!

My husband & I have large incomes, several rental properties, and combined 401Ks of just less than $1M. What is our barrier to financial success? Time, and knowledge. How much cash should we have? If we get a large bonus, how much can we spend vs how much to save. If we save, what percent in 401K vs stock portfolio vs rental properties? In 401K and stock portfolio where should we invest? Okay, obviously we need help, so we need an advisor ... how do we get an advisor? We went to Meryl Lynch, spent a month getting all of our financial records for their "expert analysis" and the result ... put $500/month in a mutual fund! 10 years later we went to Bank of America... same month to gather all our finances ... oh, we qualify for "Premier Banking" .. we consolidate our portfolio in BoA, and start paying higher fees for NO Advice....So, that is our story, and those are our barriers... Any help you could provide would be appreciated.

@Carmen - Thank you for your input. I'm hearing several issues so let's separate them out...

1: The first issue I get from your message is the challenge of successfully converting your ability at earning income into an asset base sufficient to consider yourself financially free. This issue is shared by many. We begin our careers believing a high income is the goal only to realize there is an entirely different level of knowledge required to convert the income into freedom instead of just more/better/different lifestyle. I will make sure to write more about this in the future.

2: The second challenge I hear is the gross inadequacy of most financial planning services. Again, this is shared by many. The sad truth is those companies you refer to are in the asset gathering and sales business - they sell used investment assets - and your needs are more about educational support. I have written extensively on this issue throughout this site including Financial Coaching vs. Financial Advice and How To Find Financial Advice You Can Trust. Make sure to look at the linked articles at the end of each of these articles to find other educational content related to this issue. I don't want to link to all of them in this reply but there is more of interest related to this issue in those links.

3: Finally, there is the issue of how much money is enough to be financially free. I cover that completely in the ebook How Much Money Do I Need To Retire?

At the risk of sounding self-serving you are probably a prospect for my financial coaching services. Your profile and needs perfectly fit.

Thanks for your input and I hope the articles and resources referenced help.

@Todd Tresidder:

Hi Todd... thanks for the quick response. Thanks for targetted listening & dead on response to our needs. I agree we are a good fit for your financial coaching services. That is why I signed on to your news letter. We are moving this month, but I hope to contact you after my move. Take care, and thank you, I really enjoy your upbeat, direct approach, and I look forward to working with you in the future!

@ Carmen - You are welcome. I appreciate your input and good luck with your move.

Todd;
i am in a stage of changing mu belief in finnancial success. most of the thing that y knew were wrong.
i am changing my mentality on how the money flow.

sorry for my lttle english but i am spanish.

regards
sebastián

@Sebastian - Thanks for sharing your thoughts - broken English and all - because your message comes through loud and clear. In order to take action you must believe that you can actually succeed and your actions will produce meaningful results. It is a hurdle everyone must overcome to shift focus toward the delayed gratification of savings and investments. You have to believe it will actually work.

Everyone is welcome to please add on to this thought if there are more subtleties or angles you would like to develop...

My biggest challenge has been to find a place to put my money that will even keep up with inflation. In 1999 I had $200,000 to invest. I went to a financial planner. At one point I was down to about $80,000 because of the market. I recovered eventually to about the $200,000, but now I am below that again. I have taken NO money from the accounts, but with the market and paying my financial planner, I can't get ahead. I retired in 2008, but I am reluctant to withdraw anything even though I could use the money.

@Martha - Your story is shared by many... a reliable way to invest that controls risk/drawdowns and compounds growth faster than inflation. I have a simple solution that I have been teaching my coaching clients for years and will be teaching in Step 6 of my Seven Steps to Seven Figures series so please stay tuned. I hope to publish that step in the course sometime in 2011. Thanks for your input!

If others are interested in this then please let me know and maybe I will accelerate getting the course done based on the interest level...

FinancialMentor.Com Featured In...